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T LAVAN SHOEMAKER
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I shoot to an 11.8 handicap and have shot 80 numerous times but have yet to break it. I opened up with 4 pars yesterday and then it started going down hill. I have two issues that I've identified and would accept feedback upon.

1. After I open up strong I get this thought that there's nothing I could do to have a "bad" round instead of thinking, "put your foot on the throat and go low." I loose focus, especially if I'm starting to get pushed from the rear.

2. I still have a couple or few of what I call "complete axxhole" shots each round. Enough that I still have a mental approach that it's a toss up as to whether I even make acceptable contact, much less attain the target. It can start with the skied tee shot, a topped fairway bunker shot, or a pitch off the toe tip of my iron. Afer that, I don't feel like I can hit a good shot until I see it flying through the air.

It gets better when I remember to "have fun first" but I do exactly the opposite when I beare down and try to shoot my personal best. I get tight, & I start thinking "hit" instead of "swing." The result is the inability to hit any iron greater than an 8 without snap hooking it. When I remember to check my tempo and smooth out the transition it helps but I still seem to revert back to my old swing habbits when I try to make an adjustment during a round.

Is this what the pros refer to as "not enough reps?" Since I've began to develop "my swing" I don't really have a "go to" shot anymore. My only reliable shot is a flat swing that comes hard into the ball and takes a honker divot. I have a greater grasp of the technical aspect of my swing but need some input on just PLAYING the dang game sometimes.

Anyone else have similar experiences?
cogolfer1
LowIndex
 
# 1    11/10/2012 10:59:18 AM   
When I played a course in Maui a week ago and was trying desperately to break 80, I was 2 over after 11, sitting in a good spot. Looking back on it, I began to cost myself that opportunity on #12 when I had about a 5-7 foot putt for par, and when I was reading it, and thinking about where I stood in relation to breaking 80, I said to myself, "You don't have to make this putt." X( I'm surprised I haven't hurt myself after thinking that, and it should be no surprise I pulled the putt badly and missed it. Unlucky bogey on #13, par on #14, silly double on #15, par on #16, bogey on #17, and a shanked P wedge from 100 yards on #18 leading to triple gives you 82. You have to learn how to put the throttle down, which is what got me over the 80 hump. Say to yourself you're going to raise hell and kick the course's ass. Have a chip on your shoulder and don't ever think a "lead" is safe, like I did that day.


njgolfer
Legend
 
# 2    11/10/2012 1:59:39 PM   
One of the things I learned over the years to shoot that round in the 70's is course management. I have learned where to miss, when to back off, not to hit driver when a fairway wood or long iron will suffice. For years I always was trying to reach par 5's in two. When I "learned" how to make long par 5's into a three shot hole, I took out the big numbers. Today as much as I hate to take a penalty stroke, sometimes taking a drop results in a bogey or an unexpected par. Again, just take out the big numbers. Course management along with working on your short game will have you breaking 80 more often.


keith day
Professional Champion
 
# 3    11/10/2012 7:00:23 PM   
First, stop beating yourself up. Everyone tries to push it, thats the great thing about golf, risk and reward. Its not how,, its how many. 1. Not about your good shots, but good misses. This means your taking out the chance of a big number on every shot. 2. Be your best friend, you really sound like u enjoy beating yourself up. Your not gonna play your best golf unless you relax, play one hole at a time. Forget about the outcome while ur playing. I hate myself for loving this game, cant wait to play tmw. FAIRWAY & GREENS BROTHER


JayPet
Legend
 
# 4    11/12/2012 2:23:13 PM   
Confidence is everything in this game. Suggestion for the iron shots... take an extra half second and stay down on the ball and literally watch the ball leave the ground. It may help shallow out the divots.

Avoid any big numbers and you will get to the 70s. Remember the golden rule to avoiding big #s... never follow a bad shot with a stupid shot. ;)