Is there another sport where protocol and rules compliance is so frequently broken, or discussed, or (gulp) accepted? So long as I have nothing at stake I tend to have little or no regard as to whether my fellow golfers choose to play by the rules. I am more likely find a tactful way of getting them in line if they demonstrate cluelessness toward the application of reasonable protocol, especially if the situation becomes painfully embarrassing.
But should this be the case? In baseball, three strikes & you're out, if you step on the line with the pig skin you don't get the touch down, and three of a kind beats two pair. That's that, and you don't get away with calling it a mulligan. Maybe we should ease up to these guys and just quietly ask, "what the hell are you doing?" Or better yet, establish on the first tee that all penalties are doubled if someone else has to call you on it. To harsh? Well, if not for the rules of the game, the "game" doesn't exist. In the end I have accepted that it is my choice to accept a second trip around the loop with these guys or not. As for me, the answer is simple. If I am not steadfast in my adherence to the rules of the game, how do I know if I'm really getting any better or not? And most importantly, when I better my best score to date, I have forfeited that true deep feeling of accomplishment and pride if I know that I cheated to attain it. Now THAT would piss me off more that anything another player could do.
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HIGH_LANDER
6/9/2010 10:27:53 AM rules are rules! |
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Lugnut24
10/15/2009 10:37:54 AM if the ball is OB then it is OB don't stand and pretend that it isnt you made a bad shot and it is going to cost you a stroke. If you are playing a round where every stroke counts then count it, if you dont it isnt going to make you better but you would have turned a true score you just would be lying to yourself. |
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cpfitness
10/15/2009 7:45:16 AM "In baseball, three strikes & you're out, if you step on the line with the pig skin you don't get the touch down, and three of a kind beats two pair. That's that, and you don't get away with calling it a mulligan." This is true, however, what about when your practicing baseball and you swing and miss 3 times in a row but the coach keeps on pitching to you. I agree that if your playing a match then you should play by the rules however there are a couple of things I don't mind high cappers doing. 1. Taking a drop when you hit it ob instead of hitting 3 from the tee. I play at my muni which is already busy, hitting another ball from the tee slows things down more, though not as much as looking forever for your lost ball. 2. If your going to allow gimmes, be consistent with the distance and then take your ball away, don't go ahead and putt anyways, thats just more time being wasted. I play pretty serious matches with my friends and our course has plenty of areas that would probably get white spray paint circled around them to indicate GUR but we never improve our lies, we just accept the fact that it will make us better players in the long run if we learn to hit off those tough lies. |
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pjcedog
10/13/2009 3:47:13 AM I don't care what anyone else does on the golf course it is their business and doesn't affect me in the least, unless of course we are playing in a tournament or other formal competition where keeping score and following the rules to the letter has an impact on the outcome. For a casual round if you give me crap about following the rules precisely I am going to tell you to mind your own business but probably not in those exact words. |
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PISC
10/12/2009 9:49:32 AM hear hear! Well stated! |
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ricckkster49
10/12/2009 8:18:54 AM They say art is the imitation of life. So is golf. Golf is the imitation of life as well. I love golf, as I have stated before, it is perhaps the last honest, gentlemen's and gentlewoman's game. Perhaps what one imitates on the golf course, one also imitates in life. As indicated, I concentrate on my game, and my application of the rules. I let others do the same. I can't let someone else's application of the rules upset my life or my game. In a tournament, that is taken care of. Don't let anyone else's "baggage" interfere in your game or your life. hit em psychologically straight as well...... |
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Spiko
10/11/2009 5:53:47 PM the rules are there to be followed, but since most of us play stroke against our own scores, it is up to us to follow them, if someone does not want to follow them it is up to them. |
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ArizonaBlue
10/11/2009 11:04:16 AM Sometimes you just have to play your game. It is frustrating when others don't follow the rules or improve their score with what I call "creative scorekeeping." Getting upset can only ruin your game. If others "play at" golf instead of playing golf, don't play for stakes or anything important. Keep your own score and don't worry about theirs. They are only hurting themselves. Play your game ... and let them think they are playing golf. |
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KeithBro
10/11/2009 8:46:24 AM A practice shot is for the driving range, not the course! |
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heartotexas
10/10/2009 9:11:47 PM I live on a course here. I watch a lot of golfers come through. Sad thing is I see at least half of them (that's me being nice, its more like 75%) doodle their ball around in the fairway to get the lie just so perfect. My son used to have that bad habit also, but I started counting strokes on him and he quit. |
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Sylla
10/10/2009 7:26:29 PM Most people I play with do not respect the rules. Lately, I've played with a couple of very good players and I was stunned to see them move their ball and improve their lie. I would understand it from high handicappers who are afraid they won't be able to hit the ball (although, as Anna said, if you never try difficult shots, you'll never learn). But from very good players, I really don't get it... |
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Anna Kelly
10/10/2009 6:47:01 PM I agree. My husband and myself have only been golfing for 3 yrs and he has a bad habit of throwing down another ball whenever he duffs a shot! Then he only counts the good shots and at the end of the round tells me his score as if the other balls never happened. It not only irritates me but slows the game down. We usually play alone and are both still learning but I ask him,"how will you know if you improve unless you count every stroke"? Yes, he is driving me crazy. |